As salamu aleikum!! Have you ever wondered if there is a way to improve your marriage right now? I have two tips for you today, so you can implement them immediately into your marriage.
The number one complaint in marriages is: the lack of understanding and appreciation.
Wives feel as if they are not allowed to ask for more love, attention and appreciation from their husbands. While husbands feel like they are never good enough for their wives.
And it’s none of their fault!
You can tell, as a wife, you want to hear nice and kind words, you want to be heard, respected and appreciated.
And men want what? Sex, you say!
Both, you and your husband, want to feel loved, respected and appreciated. Despite the differences. It’s just basics.
How do you get what you want and give your husband what he wants?
Start with compliments.
Compliment him for things that he should be doing anyway, but add a special touch to it.
For example, he helped you with the groceries, kids, house chores, made you cup of tea, anything really, thank him, make du’a for him, smile and verbally acknowledge how much you appreciate what he does. He may say that that’s his job, but thank him anyway.
And for yourself, compliment yourself IN FRONT of him. How beautiful you look like, how your hair shine, how this, how that…
Many of my clients cringe when they are asked to compliment their husbands and, usually, they come back with not only positive feedback, but their mood have increased too (the husband ‘paid’ back the compliment;)).
Celebrate your relationship that Allah has blessed you with.
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Love you, fi sabi lillah.
Until next time,
As salamu aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu!!
Mahdiyah.
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