As salamu aleikum, Beautiful 🙂 Oh family and marriage, can it get any worse? Talking frankly, your or his families can bring YOUR marriage to the brink of the divorce. So, in today’s blog we are tackling the big family issue. How do we avoid our families ruining our marriages?
It’s an old truth that relatives can play a very serious role in the happiness of your marriage. They may aid it or may ruin it.
I have had some experiences that, oh boy, wouldn’t wish to repeat in a million years, just because they were emotionally disturbing. You wan’t your/his families to accept the way you are, but it’s rather a distant dream than reality.
How to solve that?
Simple, just forget about it.
Those, who like you will like you for the person that you are.
Those, who don’t like you, you could literally give up your soul for them and they won’t appreciate your act of kindness.
Therefore, look out for the trouble makers and keep them as far as you can. Don’t let them come in and wipe their shoes on your heart.
Cherish yourself. Cherish your peace of mind.
It’s not worth to give up marital happiness for the ones that only mind everyone else’s businesses. Your marriage is more important and conscious decision to stay strong family unit needs to be done. This way, everyone is on the same page and trouble makers cannot bring any bad vibes into your household.
There are relatives that you may not be able to avoid, especially the ones that supposed to be the closest ones.
But you can definitely minimize their bad influence by not letting them get to you, to your husband and to your kids.
Build a fortress and lover the gates only to those, who are worth it.
You are an amazing woman, never let anyone make you doubt that! xxx
As always, thank You for reading 😉
Ma salama,
Veronika al Mahdiyah.
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