As salamu aleikum!! Do you know that you need to answer only ONE question that will help you to enjoy your marriage again? This question is dead simple, but we rarely, if ever, ask ourselves this:
‘Have I married my husband for his flaws or his good qualities won my heart?
Just think about this for a little bit. We have married for the good qualities that the husband ALREADY had.
Then why, in a moment of anger, we throw all the bed stuff in our spouse’s face?
We, myself included, have this thing to get a good grasp on the bad stuff and let all our frustration, disappointment and unfulfilled expectations to concentrate and boil on it.
Let it go. Keep reminding yourself about the ‘WHY’ of your marriage.
It’s true in life, as it’s true in marriage that you cannot enjoy it if you only see the negative.
It’s that simple.
I hope you will ask yourself this question again and again. It is important to remind yourself on those hard marriage moments.
Thank you for reading.
Next time we will talk about how to improve your marriage right now. I’ll be sharing 2 top tips that can do just that.
Till next time,
As salamu aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.
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